Listening for a Shift in Emotion
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A subject's emotional register rarely stays constant across a long conversation, and noticing the exact point where it shifts, from ease into guardedness, or from formality into something warmer, tells an interviewer a great deal about which topic actually matters to the person sitting across from them.
These shifts are sometimes visible, sometimes only audible, and occasionally only sensed as a subtle change in the rhythm of the conversation that is hard to describe precisely. Trusting that sense, and following it with a gentle question, is often more productive than sticking rigidly to a prepared order.
The care required is proportional to the shift noticed: a move toward genuine distress calls for slowing down and checking in, not for pressing forward simply because the material has suddenly become more compelling to record. A move toward genuine distress calls for slowing the pace considerably, not for pressing ahead simply because the material feels compelling.