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The Mirroring Technique

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Repeating the last few words a subject has said, in a tone that invites them to continue, is one of the oldest and simplest listening techniques available. It costs nothing to try and often produces more than a direct follow up question would, since it keeps the subject in their own train of thought.

The technique works because it removes the interviewer's own framing from the exchange entirely. Rather than asking a new question shaped by the interviewer's interpretation, mirroring simply hands the subject's own words back, leaving them free to develop the thought in whatever direction feels most natural.

Overused, mirroring can start to feel mechanical, and a subject may notice the pattern if it is repeated too often within a single sitting. Used sparingly, at the moments it fits best, it remains one of the most reliably effective small tools an interviewer has. Used sparingly, at exactly the right moment, it remains one of the simplest tools available to any interviewer.

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